A New School Year Means It’s Time to Revamp Study Areas

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By Barbara Kaplan –

Now that the kids are back in school, what changes do you need to make to your home to accommodate the new academic year? Your children have grown in size, and their maturity level has grown as well. This increase it may require a shift in the space for everyone, because they have new educational needs.

This is an opportunity to talk with your children about their goals for the coming academic year and what they would like to achieve. This can lead to an interesting and fun discussion of what environment they need to succeed. (What do they need to work comfortably and how does that look and feel for them?)

Since this may be the first time they have ever reflected on this, it can be a learning experience for them to create a setting that works for them and helps them to achieve. It could lay the foundation for them to create awareness about their living space, and they can realize they have control over it.

The home environment is always a learning place, but to formalize it as an extension of the classroom requires thought and a personalization of space to help your child reach (their) peak performance. So here are some sample questions to either be asked or answered: (As the parent you might already know all the answers, however it’s always good to get the input from your children.)

  • Where do you prefer doing your homework? Would you rather be in your own room, at the kitchen table/counter, or in the family room?
  • Would you rather sit on the floor or at a desk?
  • Do you like to sit up or recline?
  • Do you like to sit in a chair, sofa, or bed?
  • Do you like to work outside on the patio in nature?
  • Do you need the phone close by?  (Maybe the question should be…do you want a phone close by?)
  • Do you need a computer?
  • What is the best lighting for you? (And how much lighting do you require?)
  • Do you need quiet, or do you like to have the radio or TV on?
  • Would you like to work in solitude or do you like having people around?
  • Does music or a burning candle soothe you?
  • What are your storage needs? (And do you have room for your supplies?)

Even though you may not agree with your child’s answers, it is important to listen and be open to the different ways they may like to work. Together you can come to an understanding that will work for you both.

This is also the time to note if your children have grown to the point of redecorating their room.  Do they need a bigger bed, (more) clothes storage, book cases or areas to house their growing interests, such as computers, electronic equipment, etc.?  Rooms can be designed to grow with your children. Consider the permanent pieces of furniture and make them more neutral.  Then you can be more creative and personal with the less-expensive pieces such as bedding, window treatment, paint and accessories. Most often these items can change as children grow. Our environment influences us even when we don’t realize it. Here’s your opportunity to create an environment that is conducive to learning and having happier children.

As I always say, “Rooms have no feelings, YOU do!” and that’s true for your children’s rooms as well.

Barbara Kaplan, Allied ASID, IFDA, a Scottsdale based interior designer, creator and author of The Bajaro Method, Rooms Have No Feelings, You Do! and founder and influencer of Barbara’s Picks, a design and lifestyle online resource directory.

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What is Feng Shui & Bajaro?

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Combining Feng Shui with Bajaro is believed to create the perfect combination of harmonizing the environment in which we live and work. For many people today, home and work, is the same which makes it even more important to understand these two philosophies. Together, they are the most powerful method of creating harmony in personal environments for happiness, good health, productivity and success. Actually, this is true for anywhere you are!

These two techniques used together are believed to bring about personal connection and healing of the mind, body and spirit. This happens because we are all reacting to our surroundings whether we are aware of it or not. We are all either healing or hurting all day long. This is influenced by what we see, hear, feel, smell, touch, taste and of course the energy around us.

What is Feng Shui? This Chinese philosophy simply means “wind” and “water,” which as nature addresses is natural to any environment.  Whether the energy is clear or blocked will affect the flow of Chi, which is the word used for the healthy or unhealthy energy flow in a space. For example, changing the position of a desk in relation to the door can promote a better flow of energy, which can result in being less distracted or stressed. Feng Shui also focuses on all kinds of materials in the room such as rubber, synthetic fabrics, wood, stone, brick, earth and so on as they either obstruct or assist free flow of good energy around your home and workplace. It is important to know is that there are remedies for all situations to create better Chi.

Bajaro has three elements: Understanding, Acceptance, and Allowing, which create an awareness to the distractions and discomforts as well as the things in our environment that make us feel good. With this awareness we are then able to adjust what is necessary to what feels good to us individually. Most of all by turning inward, which I call the ultimate “interior” design, we can ask ourselves what it is that we need to feel good thus heal in our harmonized environment.

As individuals we must consider the complete experience we have every day. What is the first thing you see in the morning? How does it make you feel? Or the last thing you see at night. How well do you sleep? What is the energy when you walk into your work space?

It becomes more difficult when you are out in public spaces but learning the cues that affect you becomes critical. For instance, when in a restaurant do you carefully select the seat where you will be eating so that you are comfortable, looking in the direction that pleases you, not hearing loud conversation from a nearby table or other distractions.

The key difference of the two philosophies is that:

Feng Shui is about the space. Aligning spaces and objects to facilitate the free flow of positive energies and remove the negativity in the environment. Positive energies are those that move freely in your spaces to bring people good health, happiness, sound relationships and prosperity. Negative energy is stagnant, like from clutter and wrong placement or size of furniture. Once the space is clear there is room for people to live and thrive there.

Bajaro is about the people in the space. It addresses the individual and empowers them to create the spaces in a personal way to express their desires, be comfortable and enjoy living with what they feel is beautiful. Bajaro believes, “If it feels right, it is right.” Bajaro encourages people to have confidence in their taste and style and address the design through their eyes. Bajaro asks the right questions so each person is able to find the right answer for themselves for what they need and how they want to fulfill their lives. For example, what color feels soothing in a space meant for relaxation or what color inspires you in an area used for a creative process?

When you have both the positive energy and personal understanding working together, you have perfection!

Remember, rooms have no feelings, YOU do!

Barbara Kaplan, Allied ASID, IFDA, a Scottsdale based interior designer, creator and author of The Bajaro Method, Rooms Have No Feelings, You Do! and founder and influencer of Barbara’s Picks, a design and lifestyle online resource directory.

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Designing For Couples

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Over the years, I have led many couples on their journey of “couple design discovery.” By connecting their individual vision for their home, they create a style that is unique for them.

For this to work, it is essential that both people be involved in the design process. It doesn’t mean that they both must like everything; however, they must be willing to accept the needs and desires of the other person as long as their own needs and desires are met, too.

Couples can begin by assessing what they enjoy together. These similarities play a key factor in developing their combined style. They can express together in ways that are creative and often unexpected, and the unexpected may be the most important. This is when new information about each other can be gathered, which then leads to better understanding of each other’s needs. This thoughtful creative process helps design a home that speaks of the couple and makes new memories in their shared environment. I like to say that 1 + 1 = 3. A new and unique style.

Acceptance of each other’s taste comes with understanding. It’s important that both people explain their reasons when making design choices. It’s not just about a particular style, color or pattern. These choices are about each person’s unique reaction to them. Once we understand why we feel a certain way, we are able to explain it to our partner. Then we are able to create something that contains our shared beliefs, goals, and dreams.

Here are some questions to discuss. Be sure to sit in a comfortable, quiet place to share your feelings:

  • What are the things you like doing together?
  • What are the things you like to do alone?
  • What is your favorite room in the house? Why?
  • Do you have or need a place to be alone?
  • What are the things you agree about in the home décor? Why.
  • What are the things you don’t agree about in the home décor? Why.
  • Are you expressing what is important to you or are you wanting to please the other person.

As you discuss these questions, others will come up. It is necessary to hear each other’s answers. Once you know the reasons for the feelings, both yours and theirs, you can come to a place of compromise and make mutual choices.

Recently, I worked with a couple who were redecorating their home. They anticipated being at odds with each other as they were when they initially decorated their home years earlier. I suggested they go through their house separately and make a list of all the things they absolutely wanted to keep and the pieces they no longer wanted. They were surprised and amazed that they had the same items on both lists. I wasn’t surprised, because after 10 years of marriage their tastes had blended, but they hadn’t realized it. They were overjoyed with the outcome. We proceeded with the project designing for their taste today and eliminated the rest.

Finding harmony between two people who live together may not be easy, but it is rewarding. Especially when you honor both yourself and your “room” mate.

Always remember that rooms have no feelings, YOU do.

Barbara Kaplan, Allied ASID, IFDA, an Arizona based interior designer, CEO of Design Dimensions, and Barbara’s Picks, a design and lifestyle influencer, and author of The Bajaro Method, Rooms Have No Feelings, You Do! Visit www.barbarakaplan.com or www.bajaromethod.com.

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Design Trends 2018

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Interior design trends for 2018 are all over the map. It’s no surprise when you look around the world at what is going on politically, economically and socially. Design is always a reflection of people’s attitudes. It has become a global experience.

After 2008 when our economy was suffering, colors were muted, dull and somber. Many manufacturers went out of business and new designs were not created. The DIY craze grew, and people started decorating for themselves. Due to the internet and the abundance of information and resources available, people are able to make purchases with confidence.

Today we have done a 180. Colors are alive and vibrant. Several colors and patterns are combined for interest and dramatic effects. Pantone just named the color of the year as ultra violet — a bright purple. People have become less fearful to add color to express their personal taste and style both at home and in their lives.

Here are a few of the trends I see reflecting for the new year:

  • Because of the expanded opportunities for design, the interior designer’s role has expanded. The designer often becomes a consultant to guide and empower people through their projects, giving the consumer creative ideas that they can complete themselves.
  • Because the internet has endless amounts of DIY opportunities for consumers, it can be overwhelming. It is important to remember that less is more. You can always add later.
  • The trend is to express your personal taste. The days of keeping up with the Joneses is over. Now individuality shines. Surround yourself with what you love!
  • The “undesigned and undecorated” look is in. A casual and comfortable lifestyle appearance says somehow the décor just came together organically and effortlessly. Living is easy and just happened.
  • Accessories complete a room. Accessories tell the story of the people who live there. They fill a room with life and personality. They add color, texture shape and interest.
  • Pillows are the rage too. The power of a pillow can change an entire room. Mixing and matching colors, patterns and sizes create fun, interest and individuality.
  • Cabinetry throughout the house does not have to be the same. Each area has its own function, style, color and personality. This includes changing the countertops too.
  • Hardware for cabinetry is the same as jewelry for a person. Your choices of styles and finishes give you the opportunity to change and coordinate metals and style in each room.
  • Carpet comes in many styles, heights, and yarns. Patterns are often raised in same or contrasting colors.  Shag is back, and carpet squares are used for residential applications.  The variety is endless.
  • Metal fibers are threaded into carpet fibers to give a glow of glitter and glitz. They could be gold or silver, subtle or pronounced giving carpet elegance and drama.
  • Wood is still a rich, elegant and beautiful choice and now ceramic tile that looks like wood is the rage. This low maintenance twin comes in endless choices of color and types of wood.
  • Area rugs are being used on hard flooring surfaces as well as on carpeted areas. They can define a grouping of furniture and define any space with color and interest.
  • Furniture is less heavy and lighter in color. The look is more sleek and contemporary. Woods are stained or painted in lighter colors. The finishes are more organic and rustic.
  • Fabrics are blended with mixed fibers. They have lots more texture and come in matte and shiny finishes. Faux leather and suede is extremely popular and available in endless colors.

Most importantly, be true to yourself and have fun, when decorating your personal environments, because, rooms have no feelings, YOU do!

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Back Orders: Every Designer’s Worst Nightmare & Picking Paint for Your Walls

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Q: What happens, when something I have searched endlessly for and chosen is back-ordered or discontinued?

A: Although it isn’t frequent, it does happen that something we selected is on back order, which means we must wait for it to come in. Worse case is when something we have ordered has been discontinued and we must go through the process of reselection. Usually there has been time and effort put into selecting an item — and when we learn that it is not available, this is upsetting because in some cases we must start all over. Back orders and discontinued stock is a nightmare for interior designers and disappointing for clients.

Interior designers put in a lot of time shopping and making selections to create a total look for a project. We then make a presentation to our clients and they accept the design and they set their heart on the outcome. It is disappointing when something happens to change the picture. Unfortunately, when one thing changes, everything else may have to change as well. It depends if the piece that’s missing is a central point and the rest of the choices were made around that selection, or whether the object or selection is just a small addition.

The good news is, and it has never failed me that, when this happens, as upsetting as it is initially, the outcome has always been better. When we must go back rethink and research other options, it enhances the outcome, which creates an opportunity for the end result to be even better. I generally refer to these occurrences as opportunities for greater creativity.

Q: Why is it so hard to select paint colors? No matter how much time I spend looking through paint samples, I am disappointed when the color is on the wall.

A: Choosing colors to paint your walls is one of the most difficult things to do because looking at a small sample can be deceiving. When looking at paint chips, be aware that they are surrounded by white paper, which gives it a contrast that is not there when it is on the walls. You are also holding it horizontally — looking down at a flat surface — and the paint on the wall is vertical. In a room, the four walls and ceiling all have light hitting it in different intensities. One wall may be in shadow, another may have bright light on it and the other two may be somewhere in between. So, color doesn’t look the same on any of the walls.

When color bounces off itself, as opposite walls do, it intensifies. The texture of the wall and he finish of the paint also influence the outcome. Some walls are smooth, while others may have the popular “knockdown” texture. The textures are seen more significantly when using paint with a higher-sheen finish. (The choices of finish include flat, sateen, low sheen and hi-gloss.) Depending on the type of finish you are using, the colors will also take on a different look.

Do not be afraid to experiment. Buy a small amount of the color you want to use and put it in various places on the walls. Also, be sure to make these areas large enough to really get a feel for how the room will look with it on the walls. This way you have the experience of seeing exactly how it’s going to look. When making color selections, don’t be afraid to make a statement. It is so much more fun to live in color.

When you encounter these scenarios as you decorate your home, remember to welcome the unknown as a chance to try something new. And remember, rooms have no feelings, you do!

Thanks for all your questions and comments. If I use your question or comment in this column I will send you a free, autographed copy of my new book, The Bajaro Method: Rooms Have No Feelings, YOU Do!

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Do You Treat Yourself Well At Home?

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How do you prefer to live? Do you take the time to treat yourself well at home? Do you do things in your home that make you happy and feel good?

Last week I had a conversation with a client about bringing rituals and ceremony into her home. She had read one of my articles and wanted to bring her “signature” into her environment. To do this she knew she had to better understand herself so that she could customize her personal space.

As we talked about doing this she realized that it was about her preferences. It was about her habits and things she likes that gave her comfort and bonded her with her surroundings. Of course, her favorite things are very different from yours and mine.

If you want to do this, you first have to get in touch with your inner self to see what you need and want to express in your most personal spaces. This type of bonding is done when you repeat something every day and look forward to the special things you do for yourself.

The habits and preferences you practice in your spaces is what personalizes them. What you do can be peaceful and serene and other times can be fun and exciting. Here are a few examples of what I’m referring to:

  • Your kitchen can be a quiet place in the early hours before anyone else is awake. It’s where you have a cup of coffee in your special cup looking out into your garden or read your emails. Perhaps it’s taking your vitamins with a crystal or “funky” wine glass. This all depends on how you design your preference for starting the day.
  • Your bathroom can have candles around the tub for relaxation and meditation. You can have a special color toothbrush in a special glass. Your night clothing can be hanging waiting for you on a pretty hook. I have a glass that only matches my bedroom color (and doesn’t match anything else in the house) which I take to bed. This is where I take my evening vitamins which I keep on my bedside table in unique containers.
  • Any area of your home can contain your favorite things. Like pictures in beautiful frames, your private collections, flowers, personal mementos and sayings.
  • For fun or whimsy, games you enjoy can have an area with a table designed in playful colors.
  • A ceremony is something you might do when you bring a new piece of furniture into your home — you can bless it and state the intention for it.

When creating personal spaces all your senses come into play. You can surround yourself with your favorite fragrances, colors, textures, sounds and flavors. When you make yourself important enough to nurture yourself, you are creating healing. When this healing is experienced and is repeated it becomes a habit.

As you make changes in your environment remember this is your sacred space and refuge from the world. Be open to the possibilities. Look inside you, the true “interior” design, to see what you would like in your surroundings and then make it happen once your vision is clear. Trust yourself and your choices. It takes a great deal of honesty to get what you need and want. Interior design is a creative process where there is no right or wrong. If it feels right, it is right!

Design from the heart and enjoy the outcome. Remember, rooms have no feelings, you do!”

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Right-Size Rather Than Down-Size!

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Many people are becoming empty nesters or retiring and look around at the space they occupy and realize it no longer suits their needs.

Less space is needed and the spaces are used differently for things like hobbies, exercise, home offices and meditation and reading rooms.

Now is the time to focus on you! Discover who you are today, and how you can create an environment that truly reflects who you have become.

Some call this down-sizing. I call it right-sizing! Whichever you choose to call it, it is still change. Change may be difficult and scary, and it is also freeing to begin anew, reflecting your lifestyle now. Explore what environments are exciting to you and will help you thrive. Create a personal refuge just for you!  A space that speaks about you today.

Right-sizing is just that! It means that only you know what is right for you. What you would like to change? And how it would look and feel?

Keep in mind that you are not decorating to please the room, it is for you! What do YOU like and how do YOU want to live?

Don’t rush into any decision. This is a journey of discovery! Do you want to keep all the furniture you have now — which pieces would you give away or sell? If you choose to keep pieces you love, repurpose them. Use the pieces in different rooms and even change the colors.

Your home is your sanctuary…your happy place. The place where you can do whatever you want. It is the only place where you have that kind of control.

Be fearless! Make color statements with paint on walls and upholstery you purchase or recover. Add pillows and area rugs for interest and panache. Your accessories are a wonderful way to bring in color, shape and interest. And no room is complete without wall hangings. Whether it be pictures, sculptures or mirrors strategically or unexpectedly placed to the furniture, your room will be complete!

Our possessions speak to us consciously and unconsciously. Now is the time to listen and give yourself the colors, styles and comfort you want and need. And definitely don’t keep what doesn’t make you happy!

A client came to me not knowing how she wanted her down-sized home to be decorated.  She felt overwhelmed by all the decisions she had to make, knowing she had to live with the outcomes.

I encouraged her to only make decisions that were essential to moving into the house and then wait, even a short time, until she was ready to move forward.  After all, her new environment would be filled with things she hadn’t experienced before.

I asked her easy, personal questions that what would satisfy her senses, like:

  • What colors are you attracted to? Think about what you like and don’t like.
  • What furniture styles do you like: French, Tuscan, contemporary, etc.?
  • What type of wood do you prefer: light or dark color; light or heavy grain; laminate or lacquer?
  • What metals and finishes do you prefer: chrome or brass, shiny or matte?
  • What kind of window coverings serve your needs?
  • What floor surfaces do you prefer: hard or soft?
  • What sounds are important to you: bubbling water from a fountain or music?
  • What variety of textures do you desire in fabrics?

These details help you visualize and understand how you want your new home to be.  When you do, you’ll create an environment that takes your breath away.

And always remember, rooms have no feelings, YOU do!

As a gift to you, you can discover decorating and design answers to help you visualize and identify your taste and style, take the free questionnaire on my website: www.bajaromethod.com.

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Good Design Is Comfortable Design

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The single most important characteristic people tell me they want in their home is comfort, and I believe you don’t have to sacrifice comfort for the look you want. Good design comforts — but everyone has a different definition of what comfort means to them. What is warm and comfortable for you, may be very different from your neighbor’s home.

Some people choose a traditional style because they think it looks more comfortable and feels more inviting. This could be because of the softer, rounded lines of these styles and the warm texture of woods and soft fabrics. I’ve found that contemporary furniture can be comfortable, even though the materials may be hard and sleek and the fabrics plain and smooth. You just have to be willing to take the time to look for the pieces that suit your space visually as well as give you the physical comfort you need.

Some rooms require more comfort than others. A bedroom, which is meant for tranquility, especially requires a feel of comfort. A family room, where you relax and have casual entertainment, is different from a living room, where you tend to be more formal and sit up straight in a chair, which is more conducive to lively conversation.

Using heavier upholstery weight fabrics will feel softer and look more inviting on seating that you will feel under your legs and hands. Draperies can add to this feeling by using the heavier fabric there too, instead of lighter drapery fabrics, and give the design element of surprise. Either weight can add warmth by making the draperies fuller and long enough to puddle on the floor. This also adds warmth to the walls and floor, and changes the ambiance of the room.

Painting walls warm colors can change the mood of a room. Darker colors tend to calm and add warmth, while brighter colors add warmth and excitement. These background choices of colors affect the other colors you will use in the room. Contrasting colors add interest and shades of the same color are used for continuity and drama. The mood you choose depends on what you want to accomplish.

Another favorite way to add comfort is with lighting. Lamps on tables can create a cozy, intimate setting. Ceiling lights highlight floor areas, creating shadows, highlighting the important areas and creating interest. Kitchens can be warmed with lighting by emphasizing the work areas separately, leaving the floors in shadow. Since kitchens have less fabric, furniture, and walls for color and have so much hard surfaces, lighting becomes a critical design consideration both aesthetically and functionally.

Have you sat in a chair that at first feels comfortable, and after a short time you feel something is wrong and you want to get up?  That is physical comfort. On the other hand, the true test of inviting and comfortable design is the sensation you get when you walk into a room and want to sit down.

What about the discomfort when sitting at a table that is too high for you to eat, or being unable to cross your legs because the apron is too wide or you keep kicking the pedestal? When you are constantly reminded by the furniture you are using that it is in your way or not serving your needs, this is bad design. Look for the right comfort elements when buying furniture so you are not disappointed when it arrives in your home.

Good design works and is comfortable. Human beings are meant to be comfortable, so we can be happy and function with ease. Then we can appreciate the beauty around us. Mr. Marriott, of the hotel chain, has as one of his slogans, “When you are comfortable, you can do anything.” Look for comfort when designing your home, and remember, “If it feels right, it is right. “

Rooms have no feelings, YOU do!

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What Is Bajaro?

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For most people their home is a refuge – a place where they can forget about the outside world. A place that allows them to go within to create healing for the things they cannot control. This is what I refer to as a person’s “sacred space” or “healing environment.” Everyone needs a sanctuary where they feel safe from the outside world and in control of their circumstances.

As we leave our homes and go about our business every day, we have “musts” and “shoulds” to deal with. How we respond to them dictates how we feel. At the end of the day it is our home where we rejuvenate and energize for tomorrow – it’s a place where healing occurs.

You can create your own healing environment with a technique I developed called the Bajaro Method. It is an emotional design process involving your mind, heart and spirit. This three-step approach helps you find the answers for yourself.

Element one is Understanding – which is a learning process all about you. This Element explores your feelings to discover how you want to live in your (outer) environment. Once your mind understands the information you gathered you will be able to create a design plan.

Here are the steps to understanding:

  • Expose yourself to design ideas through magazines and visiting showrooms
  • Dialogue your thoughts and ideas with someone you trust
  • Keep a Journal of your feelings about how you want to live
  • Decide which design ideas belong to you or someone else
  • Determine what you need to live with such as furniture, accessories, etc.
  • Determine what colors make you look and feel good

The second Element is Acceptance – this is the time you accept your design choices. It’s important to believe you deserve everything you have chosen and be willing to spend the time and money necessary to finalizing your plan. Your heart becomes comfortable with the information and you are able to connect with your feelings and the project.

  • Decide what is most and least important to you
  • Prioritize what needs to be done
  • Establish a budget

The last Element is Allowing – having the self-confidence and courage to act upon your plan. Once this happens you can move ahead to let the project develop and grow, knowing that you will be able to fearlessly handle whatever presents itself because it is an expression of who you are. Your spirit is expressed by taking responsibility for completion.

  • Make sure you are at the center of all design decisions
  • Trust your decisions and choices
  • Surround yourself with capable people who will help you through the project
  • Stay focused and don’t let doubt in
  • Use the unexpected as an opportunity for greater creativity

Bajaro helps you make the right decisions – when using this method, you gain the confidence to make decisions based upon your likes and dislikes. Find the pieces of furniture and accessories that attract you in some way. The difficulty of making a decision about a design choice has to do with the fear of making a mistake. Ask yourself, what is the purpose of this piece? Do I think it will look good? Will I use it? Do I like touching it, holding it and seeing it? If what you are attracted to feels right, it is right – and it won’t be a mistake.

Now take yourself shopping knowing that you can’t make a mistake if you are pleasing yourself. Experiment with your environment, to create a signature look that is all your own.

Bajaro is about you!

And always, Remember, Rooms have no feelings, YOU do!

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Spring Reflection

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By Barbara Kaplan –

As Spring begins it is a time for reflection. I also find it hard to work and stay focused because I want to stop for a short time. I want to stop doing and just be. When anticipating Spring, I think about how I can make my life better. I also look around and see if my house is in order. It’s when I think about how I have integrated my personal interior and exterior to give me a home that is truly a place I call “my sanctuary.”

Using today’s technological terminology, we might call it a reboot. We simply shut down our computers and start them again. This is what we can do with our lives, too. It’s time to take a moment to stop and take stock of where we are.

  • Have we gone numb to our surroundings?
  • Do we take our environment for granted?
  • Have we made the most of the opportunities we have to create our own personal healing environments?

Many clients come to me for that very reason. They want to create a place where they can reboot, regenerate, or just have some downtime. Of course, this means different things to different people. How do you reboot? How do you stop your world and get off for a short time before getting on again?

Perhaps it’s the new season, but I feel the need to write this personal column to you. I’m grateful to have had the opportunity to communicate with you these past months. I hope you’ve enjoyed the information I’ve shared. I want to thank those of you who have taken the time to contact me. We’ve had fun e-mailing and talking about design.

Being able to reach so many people at one time is awesome and overwhelming. I sit and write all by myself at my computer, not realizing the impact of my words. Then I meet one of you and you quote something I have said in the column and tell me how it has affected your life and lifestyle.

I look forward to communicating with you in all the seasons. I would love to hear from more of you so I can furnish information that has meaning for you. Let me know what’s in your hearts and minds. I’ll continue to answer your questions and continue to ask questions so that you can find your own answers.

Lastly, I want to explain why I keep writing that “Rooms have no feelings, you do!” All that means is that you are the most important part of the equation when decorating. Rooms don’t care how you decorate them. Only you care how your rooms look and feel. So follow your heart – and if it feels right, it is right.

Thanks for all your questions. If I use your question in this column I will send you a free, autographed copy of my book The Bajaro Method: Rooms Have No Feelings, YOU Do!

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